How can we help Jonatan?

Stepmother King of the World Aryan Jonasson (Aryan Arya, KUZMIC's owner) and her equally hedonistic relatives: "Life is good!"

Jonatan suffers from extremely abusive parental alienation and gaslighting at the hands of his father Swedish author Jonas Jonasson and stepmother Aryan Jonasson. Jonatan is not allowed to read books and messages from his mother. How can we help Jonatan?

Moira, a victim of alienation and a mental health professional:

"I was about eleven at the time. My first memory of my mother expressing outrage that I still loved my father was when my father took me out to lunch to tell me about the divorce and tell me what my life would be like after the divorce. I recall asking if it would be like a friend’s situation and he said yes. This friend enjoyed a good relationship with both parents and I recall feeling satisfied with this, and not feeling frightened at all about the changes that would occur in our lives. When I came into the house my mother immediately asked me how I felt and I said fine and she burst into tears and raged at me for the first time in my life. She repeatedly stated that if it was her father who left her mother, she would be so angry that she’d never speak to her father again. I clearly recall thinking, “Uh oh, I’m not supposed to be okay with this.” I still remember my father being so surprised and confused the next time we talked and I expressed anger toward him and “outrage” that he was leaving us.

That experience marked the beginning of my mother’s systematic “brainwashing” of us. Each time I was with my father our relationship would return to normal as would my feelings for him. But upon coming home I was literally bombarded by my mother who fired questions at me asking me how I felt, what we did, etc. I recall her telling me that he was undependable, that he didn’t really care, and that if I still loved him it was only because he was brainwashing me!

This is what life was like throughout adolescence. Whether it was my mother constantly putting my father in no-win situations as proof of his horrible nature, or my mother telling my father (without our knowledge) that we didn’t want to talk to him because we were disgusted by him (and then getting off the phone to tell one of us that he didn’t want to talk to us because he was upset with us!), or her encouraging us to write our feelings in a letter to him that she said we would never mail, and then mailing it to him without our knowledge. My mother was also very indiscriminate in whom she bad-mouthed my father to—particularly anyone who expressed concern for him. Most people backed away from him because they just didn’t like the mess, which left us with the sense that she was immensely powerful, no one really saw the truth, so what was the point of fighting it. My father never bad-mouthed my mother. If we ever did complain about her to him, I recall that the most he would say was, “She hurts the ones she loves the most.”

Now here is something that I don’t think people can understand unless they have been an alienated child. After years of counseling that did absolutely absolutely nothing, and various people asking me if I was “okay” (I always said yes), my father (who had historically been passive and just backed away in response to my mother’s caustic behavior) finally approached me at about age seventeen and said that he was hurt by my constant rejection of him and that he felt as though I was being coached to hate him, and was being told things that were not true. He then asked me how I thought he felt in all of this. What is so odd is the effect this had on me—it was almost as if it allowed me to come out of a trance. For years I had just robotically repeated what my mother said, even though I did struggle with it internally, and my father’s direct but respectful confrontation of our relationship broke the trance instantly. My point is that there was nothing to indicate that my passionately expressed hatred and rejection of him wasn’t authentic, but it wasn’t and it was wiped away far more easily and quickly than I think anyone could possibly have imagined (even myself). I recall immediately feeling relief and a flooding of all of my real emotions for him. The experience is quite odd in retrospect, because I do believe at that point that I believed what my mother told me, but if I did then how was it that this gentle confrontation on my father’s part so easily broke though?

I agree with my father’s decision not to bad-mouth my mother, but where I think he made a mistake was in not confronting her mischaracterizations and lies earlier and not advocating for us more. I agree with you when you say that a passive approach is not always best. My mother had our ear constantly, and we had to “go with the program” in order to survive in that house, but we also didn’t have an alternate opinion—we didn’t have any other input to support our true feelings, thus it often felt like we weren’t strong enough to believe in our truth without some outside force to support it. When my mother would lie to us, my father was so afraid of burdening us with his perspective that he often said nothing. My aunt later told me just how grieved my father was and how my aunt would tell him that some day we’d “get it” and we’d come back to him. I just feel as though there were wasted years because I could have been convinced of reality much, much sooner had he been a bit more proactive.

A few more things that you might find interesting—my father was actually very easy-going, sometimes to the point of being passive, never raised his voice and was very reliable. Yet that didn’t stop my mother from describing him as angry, violent, mean, and unreliable, particularly when he attempted to stand up to her. I began to believe her characterization of him even though there was absolutely no evidence to support her allegations, yet in the absence of evidence my mother would create it, which made it very confusing for us children. For instance, after my father moved he would often send us airline tickets for a visit. Often they would never arrive and my mother would use this as “evidence” that he never followed through with his promises. I believe I was about eighteen when I found that cache of tickets hidden in a drawer in her room.

One more thing. The counselors in our lives did far more damage than good. My mother was wonderful at manipulating them, and we simply didn’t have a voice or the words to describe what was going on. It was far too scary for us to speak the truth (particularly when she was there in the room!) and all she had to do was go in, play the victim of an angry and abandoning man and each counselor bought it without question. I can’t tell you how many times my father was dragged in for counseling sessions while I was given a scripted list of my grievances to share with him. I also recall my father telling me later how confused he was because he didn’t know I felt that way—the truth is that I didn’t but did not have the words or insight to tell him what was really going on—part of me knew it was all a lie and another part of me worked furiously to believe the lies because it seemed easier and more convenient. I vividly recall a counselor hugging my crying mother by the elevator one evening after a session and telling her what a good mother she was. My mother used this as a weapon against us for years stating that a licensed counselor told us she was a good mother, therefore she must be!

My siblings and I are all very close and have talked intermittently about what we went through, although none of us knew until recently that this is something so widespread and systematic. I for one become so angry when I hear counselors or court advocates claim that parental alienation isn’t possible—that children can’t be brainwashed. I endured implanted memories and constant attacks if I exercised my right to have a different opinion or relationship with my father. Sometimes I agreed with her just to get her to stop, and ultimately I was not strong enough to manage the dissonance of acting one way and feeling another. So I changed my feelings to match my behavior to rid myself of the dissonance, but the truth never really left me and merely laid dormant until someone (my father) said something which resonated with my truth and validated my true beliefs. I’d suggest to alienated parents to not give up, to see their children as co-victims, not as abusers allied with the alienating parent, to not assume that what the alienated child is saying is what they are feeling (even if the child doesn’t know this), to not confuse bad-mouthing with self-advocacy, and to know that the alienation may not be nearly as deep as it may appear. I think one of the biggest challenges alienated parents must face is that to navigate the crisis effectively requires almost constant counter-intuitive responses."

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Petition to #SaveJonatan:
www.change.org/p/stop-abuse-of-power-by-the-wealthy-reunite-jonatan-with-his-indonesian-mother-alex-tjoa
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Bertelsmann CEO Thomas Rabe, as a devout Catholic, how do you feel about your Stern's slanders against an innocent colored mother and her child? goo.gl/FYmTDJ @Pontifex @Alyssa_Milano @jk_rowling @EmmaWatson #MeToo #16DaysofActivism #UNWomen

#METOO

"Jag tänkte att jag vill vara lika modig som min mamma, så att det blir någon skillnad. I want to be as courageous as my mother, so that there's a difference. Saya ingin berani seperti ibu saya, agar ada perubahan."
— Swedish student Melly, 12 years old

ABUSE OF POWER BY THE WEALTHY

Swedish author Jonas Jonasson is the Hollywood, media, and publishing industry's gold mine. Stop being his enablers. Pat Jonas Jonasson on the back. Tell him to behave and reunite his son with his Indonesian mother immediately without any hassle.

Stop the abuser instead of silencing and abusing the victim.

'Pack of hyenas': how Harvey Weinstein's power fuelled a culture of enablers.

If you are a decent parent and human being, don't be part of Jonas Jonasson's Malicious Parent Syndrome scheme, no matter how much you love his money:

1. Attempts to punish the divorcing parent though alienating their children from the other parent and involving others or the courts in actions to separate parent and child;
2. Seeks to deny children visitation and communication with the other parent and involvement in the child's school or extra-curricular activities;
3. Lies to their children and others repeatedly and may engage in violations of law;

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PARENTAL ALIENATION AND CULTURE OF ENABLERS:

"It is not uncommon for alienators to enlist family or friends to aid them in their pursuits. Further, they have no remorse as they recruit other individuals into this madness. In their mind, everyone and everything is expendable including, their own children. For a rational person, this is not normal and should be considered a sign of a defective personality or mental illness."
— David Shubert

"Jonas is punishing his very own son in his selfish, egotistical efforts to wrongly punish his son's mother. It is wrong and cruel for Jonas to deprive Alex of a relationship with their son. However, it is even crueler, and abusive, for Jonas to deprive Jonatan of the biological mother who has so much to offer and loves her son so very much."
— Linda Ann Long, USA

Obama, Oprah, Will Ferrell, CBS Films, stop Swedish author Jonas Jonasson's human rights abuse.  Sign & share #SaveJonatan petition, goo.gl/Gn9x24!

Angela Levin, the Telegraph, don't be part of Jonas Jonasson's pack of hyenas, goo.gl/Cn64X9!

German Stern magazine, Bertelsmann CEO Thomas Rabe, stop racism, stop the lies and slanders of Bertelsmann's top income-generating author Jonas Jonasson!

"I am the twelve-year-old girl, refugee on a small boat,
who throws herself into the ocean after being raped by a sea pirate,
and I am the pirate, my heart not yet capable of seeing and loving.

I am a member of the politburo, with plenty of power in my hands,
and I am the man who has to pay his "debt of blood" to, my people,
dying slowly in a forced labor camp."
— Thich Nhat Hanh
 
"Jonas is punishing his very own son in his selfish, egotistical efforts to wrongly punish his son's mother. It is wrong and cruel for Jonas to deprive Alex of a relationship with their son. However, it is even crueler, and abusive, for Jonas to deprive Jonatan of the biological mother who has so much to offer and loves her son so very much." — Linda Ann Long, USA

"Every child has the right to know and have a relationship with his or her biological mother. As Jonatan's father, Jonas Jonasson has broken with the International Convention on the Rights of the Child. Jonas Jonasson could be categorized as having used his power to abuse a child. This abuse could result in actual or potential harm on Jonatan's psychological growth."
— Johanna Ernawati, Indonesia

"...our society is moving in the direction of permitting, reinforcing, and in some instances actually valuing some of the traits listed in the Psychopathy Checklist — traits such as impulsivity, irresponsibility, lack of remorse."
— Dr. Robert D. Hare C.M

"...when you're a star they let you do it. You can do anything."
— Donald Trump

“Life worked in such a way that right was not necessarily right, but rather what the person in charge said was right. ... Today, I call myself a feminist [in front of South African feminists].”
— Jonas Jonasson

A message to Stern magazine, Germany:
Stern, stop Jonas Jonasson's lies! A child is suffering tremendously. Money is important, but humanity is more important. Aren't you ashamed that you're bullying a helpless mother and her child for years? @ZDFMarkusLanz

Sign and share this petition, goo.gl/Ll8m32, to #SaveJonatan.

Enabler: a person who encourages or enables negative or self-destructive behaviour in another. Especially when money, fame, and white supremacism talk.

This is what Mikael Aspeborg, Swedish UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador family member, wrote to Swedish author Jonas Jonasson, goo.gl/4mUqnL.

A LETTER FROM AMELIE, 13 YEARS OLD

Save the humanity that is left in this world

Heart-aching and horrible. That is my answer when someone asks me how it feels to be separated from one of your parents.

I am a thirteen year old girl from Sydney, Australia. I have been living with my mum and my sister alone. My dad comes to Sydney only four times a year for a short period of time as he is working overseas. I would always avoid answering people when they ask how it feels like living without my dad. I miss every opportunity I have with my father. Whether it is as simple as helping me with my homework or as big as a tooth surgery. I miss the comfort and the talks that I could have had with him.

Jonatan Jonasson Tjoa has been forcefully separated from his mother and has not been allowed to see her since. When I heard about Aunty Alex’s son, I allowed myself to feel shameful. If one of his friends were to ask him about his mum, I cannot imagine what would be going through his head. He has missed every mother's day without a mum. Missed the opportunity to ask for comfort or knowledge from his mother. There would always be a missing part in his life.

Our world is already filled with hatred and cruelty. If we allow anymore of this like parent­ child separation, what would our world become? We need to save the humanity that is left on this world. Reunite Jonatan with his mother. Allow him to know what motherly love feels like. #SAVEJONATAN!

Amelie Loof from Sydney.

Little Jonatan has been separated from his Indonesian mother since 2009 without any contact, not even a photo. His mother does not know how her son looks like now. Since Jonatan was few months old, he loved to play with his mother's hair when she breastfed him. She breastfed him until he was almost two years old before stopped abruptly by his narcissistic father Jonas Jonasson.

When Jonatan was separated from his mother, Jonatan really missed her. He did not have his mother's hair to play with anymore. His father gave him doll's hair instead.


"Swedish author Jonas Jonasson is really doing Jonatan a disservice to not allow his loving and brilliant Indonesian mother to help with his learning and all the wonderful things that she would teach and guide him with."
— Cynthia Aldrich, USA

Swedish bestseller author Jonas Jonasson has separated Jonatan from his Chinese-Indonesian mother Alex Tjoa since Jonatan was two years old, from 2009 until now, by using perjuries and slanderous reports made by the Swedish social service workers.

Jonatan's mother has fought for justice since 2009. At the end of 2014, the Swedish Court of Appeal decreed a statement that Jonatan must be reunited with his mother and learn about his Chinese-Indonesian background. Nevertheless, once again Jonas Jonasson conspired with the Swedish social service worker Joakim Blom, who in 2011 created the slanderous report about Jonatan and his mother, annulling the Court of Appeal's decision with the excuse that the 55-year-old Jonas Jonasson was not ready to cooperate as a parent.

In 2011, Jonatan's mother created a human rights petition at Change.org (goo.gl/hvIbbR) informing the Swedish prime minister about the Swedish government abuse of power. This petition was described by Jonas Jonasson and his global media cohorts as stalking without ever mentioning the word "petition" at all to slander and destroy Jonatan's mother's reputation and livelihood and to mislead the public's perception worldwide.

Jonatan's mother was forced to close the petition with the threat that if she did not want to close the petition she would never be able to see her son. Unfortunately even though the petition has been closed down, until now Jonas Jonasson still refuses to reunite Jonatan with his mother to prolong the torture and abuse. Jonas Jonasson in fact annulled the Court of Appeal's decision in 2014 with a repetitious foul play.

Until right now, Jonatan has no contact whatsover with his mother that he misses sorely. No phone call, no Skype, not even a photo. Letters and gifts sent to Jonatan are confiscated. Jonas Jonasson subjects little Jonatan to severe parental alienation and does not inform Jonatan's development to Jonatan's mother at all against the Swedish rule.

Jonas Jonasson is an extremely calculated psychopathic abuser who really knows how to abuse women and children in the most painful way while spreading his charm all over the world to lure the public with his celebrity entitlement syndrome.
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BRITA SUNDBERG-WEITMAN, COURT OF APPEAL JUDGE

"I have studied the material you sent me and I share your critic of the judges and the social workers. I would like to send the material to a friend of mine, Lars Bagge, who is a professional psychologist specialized in family relations. He shares my view on arbitrary courts and social services in these matters. But of course, I need your consent to involve him."

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LARS BAGGE, PSYCHOLOGIST SPECIALIZED IN FAMILY RELATIONS

"Read through the material and listened to the hearing regarding Alex's custody battle with Jonas. So damned typical and biased so they smoke! Excuse me but I get so upset about the amateurism that thrives in the Swedish social system and the administrative courts.
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Läste igenom materialet och lyssnade på förhandlingen ang Alex vårdnadstvist med Jonas. ”Så djävla typiskt och partiskt så de ryker!” Ursäkta men jag blir så upprörd över den amatörism som frodas i det svenska socialsystemet och de administrativa domstolarna."

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"It is easiest to steal children from an immigrant family who does not master the Swedish 'bureaucratic' written language to defend themselves.
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Paling gampang menculik anak dari keluarga imigran yang tidak menguasai bahasa birokratis Swedia untuk mempertahankan diri mereka.
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Det är lättast att sno barn från en invandrarfamilj som inte har det svenska skriftspråket 'byråkratiska' att försvara sig med."
— Ove Svidén

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"I have worked with one of the social service workers [in your case] and been a victim of her lies.
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Saya pernah bekerja dengan salah satu petugas social service [dalam kasusmu] dan menjadi korban kebohongan wanita itu.
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Jag har arbetat tillsammans med ett av de sk stödjarna och varit utsatt för hennes lögner."
— Monica Ullmark, Gotland, Sweden
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THE CORE PROBLEM: EVILNESS

"I ask you to remember a very simple rule of thumb. If you want good government, you need good leaders. You don't get good government by just a good system of government. That is a fallacy. Even in the best of systems, if the leaders in charge are bad, the government will be bad."
— Lee Kuan Yew

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LISTEN TO THE PERJURY

Listen to the perjury that the famous author, spokesman for Eskelhem school's parents, and feminist Jonas Jonasson made in cooperation with the Gotlandic social service workers: goo.gl/ZpnozR

When a Swedish judge paid by the Swedish people's hard-earned tax money is bought to commit human rights abuses:
HOW DO YOU LOVE THE RACIST MISOGYNIST JUDGE MIKAEL MELLQVIST FROM GOTLAND, SWEDEN, WHO DERIVES THE GREATEST SATISFACTION FROM BULLYING AND ABUSING COLORED WOMEN AND THEIR CHILDREN?

"Alexandra's claim that the social service workers have acted unprofessionally and committed "perjury" appears to come completely from the air."
— Judge Mikael Mellqvist, Visby, Gotland, Sweden

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SIV WESTERBERG,  LAWYER AND MEDICAL DOCTOR, A VERY MORALLY COURAGEOUS AND SMART WOMAN

More than 300,000 children in Sweden have been forcefully separated by the Swedish authorities from their parents since 1920, according to a report by the Nordic Committe for Human Rights prepared for the Council of Europe.

In an exclusive interview with Astro AWANI, lawyer and founder of NCHR, Siv Westerberg, explains that there is widespread exploitation amongst those in the Swedish judiciary and social welfare system.

"It is terrible that these families are broken up and the root cause of it all is money. I have even handled a case where a foster family was receiving 155,000 Kronas (19,100 USD) a month for taking care of five foster children," she says.

Westerberg adds that according to the statistics that she has, 45% of these cases involve children whose parents are foreigners, refugees or immigrants.

"This is shocking because the population of Sweden doesn't even consist of 45% foreigners," she says."

— Read more at goo.gl/ubNLry

Psychopathic duos, partners in evil. Can you spot Jonas Jonasson's and SVT Babel Maria Magnusson's Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde psychopathic patterns?

WHO ARE JONATAN AND ALEX TJOA'S ABUSERS?
The colored minorities who you think by default are villains?

• Swedish author Jonas Jonasson​, the feminist psychopath mastermind.

• Maria Magnusson, SVT​ Babel​ and Reporters sans frontières/Reporters Without Borders board of directors member, gave a slanderous testimony against Jonatan and Alex Tjoa, stating that the Change.org​ petition is "net hate" so that Jonatan can continuously be separated from his mother without any contacts for years.

• Judge Mikael Mellqvist, Gotland, Sweden, "Perjuries come from the air."

• Yvonne Olofsson, Lisbeth Crusell, Gotland social service workers, committed blatant perjuries against Jonatan and Alex Tjoa in Stockholm court.

• Joakim Blom, Gotland social service worker, wrote slanderous reports about Jonatan and Alex Tjoa in 2011 and in 2015 together with Jonas Jonasson manipulated and nullified the Swedish Court of Appeal decision that stated Jonatan must be reunited with his Chinese-Indonesian mother Alex Tjoa.

• Sankt Hansskolan Rector Cecilia Magnusson, "Alex Tjoa is not Jonatan's mother."

#SaveJonatan in Nova, November 30-December 6, 2015.

“Mantan Suami Saya Psikopat Alkoholik”

Ternyata, penulis buku laris, The 100-Year-Old Man Who Climbed Out Of The Window And Disappeared, tidak sebagus, apalagi selucu tulisannya. Bahkan, Jonas Jonasson, penulis asal Swedia itu nampak begitu keji di mata mantan istrinya, Alex Tjoa, sedikit dari fotografer perempuan Indonesia yang karyanya layak dipuji itu bertahun-tahun harus menanggung derita. Tak bisa lagi bertemu dengan Jonatan, buah perkawinannya dengan Jonas Jonasson. Ini kisahnya: goo.gl/qmX9qA.

LET US UNITE JONATAN WITH HIS MOTHER

Please share this message so that the children all over the world send postcards to ‪#‎SaveJonatan‬.

Amelie, 13 years old, from Sydney, Australia, is very sad when she knows that Jonatan has been separated from his mom since 2009. To #SaveJonatan, she shares the story of Jonatan and asks her friends to send postcards to Jonatan in Sweden.

Thank you, Amelie. Your kindness, loving care, thoughtfulness, humanity, and moral courage are the light of the world!

Articles about #SaveJonatan:
• Nova, November 30-December 6, 2015
• Femina magazine, August 29-September 4, 2015
• By Anies Sjahrir (in Indonesian)
• By Alexandra Ceng (in English)

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FROM CHRISTINE LOOF, SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA

Dear friends,

I am Christine Loof from Sydney, Australia. My friend Alex Tjoa (alextjoa.com), an Indonesian photographer who lives in Sweden, has been separated from her son Jonatan Jonasson Tjoa since 2009 by his son's father the Swedish author Jonas Jonasson (jonasjonasson.com, owner of Hotell Repet, Visby, Gotland). She has no contact whatsoever with her son. The father Jonas Jonasson does not want to read to Jonatan the letters that Alex sends to her son. In 2011, the Swedish social service workers premeditatedly on purpose lied under oath in court so that the famous father could win the custody.

When they lived in Switzerland, Alex always got a joint custody because the Swiss judge was not corrupt. Alex has no desire to deprive her son of his father because she knows that Jonatan needs both his father and his mother. The indescribable suffering she and her son have to endure in Sweden is indeed an evil and cruel human rights abuse. An injustice for one is an injustice for all. Let us stop this cruelty.

As our support to her and her son, let us send postcards to Jonatan to his school address. You can send drawings that your children make to Jonatan. Let us send the words of encouragement to Jonatan that he will meet his mother soon, for example:

"Jonatan, your mother misses and loves you so much. You will be reunited with your mother soon."

Please publish on Facebook the photos of the postcards you send to Jonatan.

Postcards/drawings sent to:

Jonatan Jonasson Tjoa

Eskelhem Skola

Eskelhem Prästgården

622 70 Gotlands Tofta

Sweden

For more info, click: http://savejonatan.blogspot.com.
To print a postcard to #SaveJonatan, download the postcard file at http://goo.gl/fTbrSS.

Your kindness, loving care, thoughtfulness, humanity, and moral courage mean a lot to Jonatan who has been separated from his mother since 2009.

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"YOU HAVE NO NATURAL CONNECTION TO SWEDEN"
Video and audio evidence is available at http://goo.gl/LR5yLH.

In 2009, when they lived in Switzerland, the father Jonas Jonasson did not allow the mother Alex to move back to Strängnäs, Sweden, so that their son Jonatan could go to the Strängnäs Montessori school where Jonatan had been enrolled in the waiting list right after Jonatan got his Swedish social security number. Alex thought it was a good idea if their son could study at the good Montessori school in Sweden.

The reason Jonas Jonasson banned Alex from moving back to Sweden where Jonatan was born was because the move would cost him 10 million SEK in Swedish tax. Jonas Jonasson had a very good control of his tax situation.

In 2010,  without Alex's knowledge, Jonas Jonasson moved back to Sweden. This is his statement in the Swedish newspaper:
"Jonas Jonasson denied that he tried to evade tax. He says that due to personal reasons he was hastily forced to move from Switzerland in 2010 and did not consider to control his tax situation in connection with the move."
— Dagens Nyheter, December 21, 2012, goo.gl/da7p19

FROM SWAN KUMARGA, JAKARTA, INDONESIA

Wiwi Halim​ menulis:
"Mata Alex Tjoa ada pada Jo kecil tp stlh Jo agak besar matanya beda jadi sayu..."

R Ciyis M​ menulis:
"terharuuu.. nyesek banget.. gk2 kita gk boleh sedih2an.. kita harus semangat untuk #savejonatan.. karena adikku yg paling kecil umurnya masih 10th dan sangat manja sama aku."

Dimas Meilan Manika​ menulis:
"Saya nangis liatnya Mba Alex Tjoa....apalagi bahu yang menanggung.....yang kuat ya Mba....Saya turut doakan dari sini."
Ini adalah kisah nyata yang sedang dialami seorang perempuan Indonesia asal Palembang bernama Alex Tjoa (alextjoa.com). Alex menikah dengan pria asal Swedia yang notabene tadinya tidak bekerja bertahun-tahun karena burnt out. Suaminya hidup dengan sickness benefit pemerintah. Baca surat yang ditulis oleh Jonas Jonasson sendiri di http://goo.gl/59t4T4. Gunakan Google Translate.

Dengan pengasuhan sang istri, sang suami yang mantan wartawan yang penyakitan lambat laun sembuh dan mulai bisa menulis buku. Dan bukunya menjadi bestseller di seluruh dunia. Sang suami Jonas Jonasson​ (jonasjonasson.com) menjadi terkenal dan kaya raya dari royalti buku yang terjual.

Yang menarik adalah cerita tentang Asia dan Indonesia di bukunya. Tokoh utama bukunya menikah dengan seorang wanita Bali yang nama Balinya dibuat oleh sang istri. Sang istri menyemangati sang suami untuk maju. Tiap hari mensupply berbagai cerita unik tentang Indonesia kepada suaminya sebagai bahan cerita bukunya. Sampai cerita tentang satu keluarga Indonesia di Abu Dhabi pun menjadi bagian dari buku bestseller Jonas Jonasson. Tidak mengherankan bagian tentang Indonesia di buku Jonas Jonasson sangatlah otentik. Untuk koreksi bahasa Inggris di bukunya, Jonas Jonasson minta bantuan istrinya yang cerdas dan berpengetahuan luas ini. Baca tulisan pak Gustaaf Kusno di http://media.kompasiana.com/buku/2015/01/10/pada-di-novel-the-hundred-year-old-man-indonesia-disindir-habis-habisan-701426.html.

Jonas Jonasson​ sendiri belum pernah ke Indonesia. Lee Kuan Yew saja dia tidak tahu siapa itu. 

Jonas Jonasson memang bukanlah Lee Kuan Yew yang menghargai kontribusi pemikiran dan tenaga istrinya. Identitas Alex justru ditutup-tutupi. Jonas Jonasson tidak mau jika penggemarnya di seluruh dunia tahu bahwa mantan istrinya berasal dari Indonesia. Sampai nama keluarga anak mereka, Tjoa, dihapus oleh Jonas Jonasson agar penggemarnya tidak tahu siapa sumber cerita otentik tentang Indonesia di dalam bukunya dan juga agar anaknya tidak tahu latar belakang Indonesianya. Pembunuhan budaya.

Inilah bedanya adat timur dan barat. Begitu suami terkenal, sang istri diceraikan. Putranya yang masih berumur dua tahun dipisahkan dari ibunya. Tadinya disepakati oleh pengadilan di Swiss hak asuh anak setengah-setengah. Ibu dan bapaknya bisa sama-sama mengasuh.

Akal licik dan jahatnya sang suami sangatlah licin. Pindahlah suaminya dari Swiss ke pulau kecil Gotland di Swedia. Dengan kepindahan ini mau tidak mau sang istri harus mengikuti aturan negara di Swedia agar sang istri bisa bertemu dengan anaknya. Tanpa mengenal siapa pun, Alex langsung pindah ke pulau Gotland demi anaknya.

Di Swedia ini Alex dan anaknya Jonatan mengalami penganiayaan HAM. Mereka menjadi korban bohong di bawah sumpah petugas social service Swedia yang kong kali kong dengan sang bapak yang terkenal. Hakim lokal di Gotland menyatakan bahwa bohong di bawah sumpah yang dilaporkan Alex dengan bukti jelas adalah fantasi dari awan.

Di video ini dapat dilihat petugas social service Swedia. Mereka tahu sekali bahwa sang ibu selalu membuat makanan sehat raw food terbuat dari buah segar dan sayuran hijau segar untuk anaknya. Bahkan petugas social service sangat menyukai raw food lezat yang sang ibu buat, sampai mereka meminta resep raw food sang ibu. Tapi di pengadilan, mereka sengaja berbohong di bawah sumpah menuduh sang ibu memberikan anaknya es krim yang tidak sehat dari supermarket agar sang ibu kehilangan hak asuh anaknya. Sampai segitu jahat fitnahnya.

Ketika pada tahun 2011 Alex membuat petisi HAM untuk menolong dirinya dan anaknya, Alex pun dikriminalisasi. Dituduh mencoreng nama baik mantan suaminya. Dengan liciknya, kata "petisi" tidak digunakan sama sekali di pengadilan dan propaganda media internasional yang dilakukan mantan suaminya untuk mengecoh opini publik. Petisi Alex justru digambarkan sebagai spam dan hate mail. Dengan fitnah yang disebarkan oleh mantan suaminya ini, sampai mencari kost pun susah setengah mati karena Alex dianggap sebagai pariah, kasta terendah, oleh masyarakat Gotland. Betul-betul keji tidak berperikemanusiaan!

Sejak tahun 2009, Alex berjuang dalam kondisi yang sangat memprihatinkan untuk bertemu dengan anaknya. Bahkan sampai harus mempertahankan dirinya sendiri di pengadilan Swedia tanpa pengacara karena pengacara bantuan hukumnya tidak ingin bekerja membantu dia. Malah tipu-tipu membuat dua tagihan biaya agar mendapat pemasukan uang yang lebih banyak. 

Enam tahun adalah penantian yang cukup lama dan melelahkan. Sang ibu sama sekali tidak diperbolehkan ketemu dengan anaknya oleh ayah anaknya padahal jarak antara kost ibunya ke sekolah atau rumah anaknya hanya sekitar 25 km. Sang ibu juga tinggal hanya dua menit jalan kaki dari hotel milik mantan suaminya. Surat yang dikirimkan sang ibu ke anaknya juga tidak dibacakan oleh ayahnya. Surat yang dikirimkan ke Jonatan diberikan langsung oleh gurunya ke ayahnya.


KEPUTUSAN PENGADILAN

Sang ibu sudah naik banding. Bulan November 2014 pengadilan tinggi Swedia sudah memutuskan bahwa Jonatan harus dipertemukan kepada ibunya dan semua surat yang dikirim bagi Jonatan harus dibacakan kepada Jonatan. Jonatan juga harus diberi tahu tentang ibunya dan asal-usulnya. Tapi dengan sangat licik, setelah sang ibu menunggu berbulan-bulan, sang bapak dengan kroninya petugas sosial service berhasil membuat keputusan pengadilan tinggi ini seperti macan kertas tanpa kekuatan hukum. 

Para bully ini dengan suka cita menganiaya sang ibu karena dia sendirian. Oleh karena itu sang ibu harus kita kawal dan lindungi.


TIDAK ADA LARANGAN KETEMU

Alex bukan ibu gila atau abusive, baca hasil penyelidikan dokter spesialis anak-anak lulusan Harvard dan psikolog Swiss, http://goo.gl/zgdpAz. Bandingkan dengan rekaman bohong petugas social service Swedia (yang maaf, tidak berpendidikan) dan keputusan hakim lokal Gotland, http://goo.gl/okPyE7.
"Examination conducted by a Swiss Harvard-graduate pediatrician and a psychologist as ordered by the Swiss judge Matteo Pedrotti

Both the Swiss and Gotland social service reports do not say that Jonatan's mother is crazy
as accused by Pär-Ola Jonas Jonasson. In fact, the Swiss report says that Jonatan had
a pleasant time with his mother. The Swiss experts state that "Jonatan is going through a
particularly pleasant period as far as the relationship with his parents is concerned, given that both are doing everything to gain his favour"/"Jonatan stia vivendo un momento particolarmente piacevole, per quel che riguarda la relazione con i propri genitori, dato che entrambi si stanno prodigando e sbracciando alla conquista dei favori del piccolo"/"Jonatan upplever en särsklit lustfylld period, vad beträffar relationen med foräldrarna, eftersom de båda gör allt de kan för att vinna barnets tillgivenhet.""

Dalam kasus Alex, tidak ada larangan ketemu atau restraining order. Malah dalam keputusan pengadilan lokal Gotland Alex disalahkan karena tidak mengunjungi anaknya. Jika dikunjungi nanti juga akan disalahkan dan dituduh macam-macam, teroris lah, dll. Apa yang Alex perbuat selalu disalahkan, dijadikan kambing hitam permainan sang bapak yang sanggup membayar pengacara sadis gila uang dengan bayaran milyaran rupiah. Sedangkan Alex tidak mendapat bantuan hukum yang tulus dan baik. 

Karena pendapatan dari kasus ini sangat menggiurkan, pengacara sang bapak juga tidak mau kasus ini selesai dengan cepat dan damai. Jika damai, dia akan kehilangan klien terbesarnya. Jadi konflik harus dikipas terus dengan segala tipu daya dan Alex harus dipersulit untuk bertemu dengan anaknya yang sangat merindukannya. Dengan begitu duit banyak terus mengalir deras ke kantongnya. 

Mereka tidak peduli terhadap perasaan hancur ibu dan anak yang dipisahkan dengan cara licik dan jahat ini. Mereka tidak peduli dengan sang anak Jonatan yang meraung-raung di lantai ingin bersama ibunya, tidak mau pulang. Mereka tidak peduli dengan Jonatan yang sangat merindukan pelukan dan makanan sehat buatan mamanya. Di manakah hati nurani mereka?

Pegawai social service Swedia tidak memperbolehkan anak ketemu ibunya. Sungguh pemerintah Swedia  kelihatannya negara keren dan kaya tetapi korupsi di sana juga luar biasa. Sangat licik. Makanya sang bapak dengan kekayaannya bisa membeli pengacara dan pengadilan agar sang ibu tidak bisa ketemu anaknya.

Media Swedia juga ikut membully sang ibu orang asing ini karena petinggi media Swedia adalah teman-teman Jonas Jonasson. Para elit saling melindungi para elit.

6 tahun penantian sang ibu yang pintar dan seorang fotografer kelas dunia ini, tinggal di pulau kecil tanpa bisa bekerja menggunakan kepandaiannya dan bakatnya yang luar biasa. Alex Tjoa hanya menunggu dan berharap bisa ketemu sang putra kandungnya.

Melalui #SAVEJONATAN ini saya sebagai teman baik Alex Tjoa yang saya kenal betul mengajak teman-teman se-Indonesia untuk ikut menolong seorang Indonesia yang teraniaya di Swedia.

KIRIM kartu pos atau hasil gambar anak-anak ke #SaveJonatan untuk mendukungnya.

Terima kasih sobat-sobat dari seluruh dunia telah membagi di media sosial hashtag #SaveJonatan agar dapat MEMPERTEMUKAN IBU dan ANAKNYA.
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FROM SIENNY SENTOSA, JAKARTA, INDONESIA

Seorang ibu, adalah malaikat utk anak2nya.

Di belahan bumi lain, ada seorang ibu, yang dipisahkan dari anaknya, oleh mantan suaminya, yang kebetulan adalah pengarang terkenal, orang yang berpengaruh di Swedia.

Sejak 2009, dia tidak pernah bisa bertemu dengan anaknya, walaupun dia tinggal tidak jauh dari Hotel yang dimiliki mantan suaminya [jonasjonasson.com].

Di tahun 2011, dia mengadakan petisi di change.org agar nasibnya bisa berubah. Alih-alih bisa bertemu dan bersatu dengan anaknya, dia justru dikriminilisasi. Dia dilaporkan ke polisi dengan tuduhan pencemaran nama baik, penyerangan, dan diisolasi dari anaknya.

Dia adalah orang Indonesia. Alex Tjoa [alextjoa.com], professional photographer penganut gaya hidup sehat, yang hingga detik ini tidak putus harapan untuk suatu hari nanti, berjumpa dengan putranya, Jonatan....

Dalam Tri Hari Suci ini.. Aku berdoa untuk kamu, Alex, dan untuk Jonatan, dan semua ibu yang terpisah dari anaknya, dan anak-anak yang terpisah dari ibunya. Karena tidak ada ikatan yang lebih kuat, daripada kasih sayang ibu....

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THE SWEDISH SOCIAL SERVICES' LYING UNDER OATH (bohong di bawah sumpah social service Swedia)
Written by Alex Tjoa

Please share this video. An injustice for one is an injustice for all.

1.
First, watch the videos of my son Jonatan Jonasson Tjoa and me:
http://goo.gl/v77YJv
http://goo.gl/jtzv2Q

My son's original Chinese last name Tjoa (Jonasson is the middle name at Skatteverket) has been deleted by his father Jonas Jonasson (jonasjonasson.com) as part of the Swedish cultural genocide so that my son does not know about his Chinese-Indonesian root.

2.
Then listen to the recording of the blatant pre-meditated perjury (lying under oath in court) committed by the Swedish social service staff Yvonne Olofsson against my son Jonatan and me, an immigrant Chinese-Indonesian mother. You can see Yvonne Olofsson's legs on the right side of the video. She is wearing a pair of short blue pants. Click here to listen to the perjury: http://goo.gl/ZpnozR.

Those who understand Swedish language can listen how Yvonne Olofsson's lies in court were revealed directly in front of the judge by video evidence. But the judge did nothing even though perjury is a crime in Sweden.

Yvonne Olofsson knows really well that I always give my son healthy homemade raw food fruit and vegetable sorbet that my son loves so much, but she lies on purpose in Stockholm court stating that I give my son the unhealthy store-bought sugar-laden ice cream to give the picture that I am a bad unreasonable mother so that I can lose the custody of my son.

Yvonne Olofsson also stated that Jonatan does not call me mama, and my son and I have no connection and no interaction whatsoever to imply that I am a passive mother. What do you see in this video?

In this video, my son wanted to invite me to his house, and you can see that my son really enjoys the healthy fruit homemade sorbet that I always make for him.

Perjury, lying under oath in court, is a crime in Sweden. But Yvonne Olofsson (http://www.gotland.se/73204) lives in impunity because in Sweden this rule applies, "I scratch your back if you scratch mine."

Imagine how many innocent families and children have been slandered and destroyed by her during her long career as a social service worker. The Swedish people's hard-earned tax money is used to abuse the people and their children.

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FROM MIRANDA ASH, ENGLAND

Dear Ms. Jakobsson, Ms. Kristiansson, Ms. Andersson and Ms. Pöppel,
My name is Miranda Ash. I am a Company Director and leadership coach from the United Kingdom.

I am writing to you today to encourage you to support my Indonesian friend, Alex Tjoa’s fight to gain access to her son – one of your students – Jonatan Jonasson Tjoa. I have known Alex for 21 years. We met while studying together at Principia College in the USA in 1994. Alex has always conducted herself with the utmost integrity and dignity – especially over the last 6 years as she has tried to gain regular access to her son.

I cannot imagine what it must be like to be separated from my child, nor what it must be like for a child being separated from his mother for so long. My mother was a single parent after my parents divorced. My father refused to pay child support or have very little to do with his children. I don’t know how she did it, but there was always food on the table, and our mother was always there to shepherd, guide and even educate us while she was getting a new career off the ground as a public speaking trainer. It was her guidance that led me to live my life always striving for excellence and with integrity – the same qualities I see in Alex.

Many of Alex’s detractors including the local Social Services have tried to paint Alex as an unfit mother simply because of her ethnicity and the vindictive campaign of her ex-husband. However, I can tell you nothing could be further from the truth. Alex is an accomplished photographer, artist and educator herself. She trains people around the world about healthy eating – an important aspect of any child’s education and something Jonatan is missing out on because he is unable to see his mother on a regular basis. I am VERY concerned that Jonatan is growing up in an unbalanced environment which will have serious ramifications on his wellbeing and educational outcomes in the future.

It is my hope that more people locally in Gotland come to Alex and Jonatan’s aid and help them to be reunited soon.

Thank you for all you are doing to educate Jonatan. Your dedication is much appreciated.

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FROM DAISY IRAWAN, USA

March 10, 2015
Dear Ms. Jakobsson, Ms. Kristiansson, Ms. Andersson and Ms. Pöppel,

My name is Daisy Irawan.  I am a Food Scientist and a Biomedical Engineer writing a book writing on natural science education, in Princeton, NJ. USA.  I have a strong interest in science education.  In 2012, I worked with Australian National University and Questacon, a science education center in Australia to develop science centers in Indonesia.  The aim of the project was to make science more interesting for young children.

Sweden is well known for its advanced science and technology development.  I believe that this is due to your focus on high quality science education from a very young age.  I read some of the Swedish school websites and was very impressed with Eskelhem Skola programs. To find more information, I talked to my Indonesian friend, Alex Tjoa, who has been living in Sweden for seven years. 

It is such a fortunate coincidence that her son is studying at your school. However, it breaks my heart, knowing that Alex and her son, Jonatan Jonasson Tjoa, have been unable to see each other for 6 years. I cannot imagine if I couldn’t see my own mother for such a long period of time. My mother was a teacher.  She raised me as a single parent after my father abandoned us because I was born with cleft lips and palate.  The financial challenge was difficult.  I remember, when I was little, my mum would struggle to buy me good scientific books. On weekends, we sat down together, read the books, did some simple scientific experiments from the books, and had fruitful discussions.  That was the happiest time in my life.  And it was her love and encouragement in education which lead me to win 9 scientific awards, to be invited to write book chapters for the Handbook of Intelligent Scaffold and Methods in Bioengineering, and have the privilege to perform research in biomedical engineering at the best research centers in Australia and Germany.

I have known Alex Tjoa for many years.  She is a very kind and highly intelligent lady who is always ready to give her hand to anyone in need. She is also a talented photographer and an excellent cook.  With her cooking and photographic talents, she volunteers to educate people in all over the world about healthy food. At the moment, Alex and I are working on a book project about indigenous herbal drinks from Indonesia.  The ingredients in these herbal drinks are scientifically proven to strengthen the immune system, to reduce bad cholesterol and blood sugar, and to help prevent cancer through their antioxidant power.  Unfortunately, Jonatan has been losing the opportunity to be embraced in the loving arms of his mother and to learn from her tremendous knowledge.

For this easter celebration, my heart told me to buy books for Jonatan. Would you please read the books with him and his classmates?  Spring is coming soon, dear teachers, as so please help them to feel the joy in gardening and cooking healthy food.  Spread the map book on the table, and let the children explore this wonderful world. Cultivate their curiosity about unique plants and animals in other parts of the world.  Build their eagerness to share their happiness, and to build friendship with people from many different cultures.  It will help to enrich their young souls, and help to make the world a better place in the future.

Happy Easter Ms. Jakobsson, Ms. Kristiansson, Ms. Andersson and Ms. Pöppel. From the woods in Princeton, I send you my gratitude for your dedication on child education. On behalf of Alex Tjoa, I send you books to embrace Jonatan in your loving soul.

Best wishes,
Daisy Irawan, STP, MSc.


Dear Ms. Jakobsson, Ms. Kristiansson, Ms. Andersson and Ms. Pöppel,

Other than Jonatan, Alex Tjoa has no other relative in the whole Europe continent.  It will be very kind if you can spare some time to have a cup of tea with her.  She will be happy to make you healthy dessert, and share the recipe.  You can learn more about her in her website: http://www.alextjoa.com and e-mail her at alextjoa@gmail.com.  She lives in Östra Tullgränd 7, Visby 621 56, Gotland, Sweden.

Warm regards,
Daisy Irawan
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FROM FRANS THAMURA, JAKARTA, INDONESIA

My name is Frans Thamura, I am an education activist located in Jakarta, Indonesia. I am an expert in computer programming, especially Java. I acquired Java Champion, one of the most prestigious awards for Java developers in the world. There is a Java Champion from Sweden, Mattias Karlsson, that conducts JFokus, http://www.jfokus.se/jfokus/. I founded Meruvian, a non-government organization related to my work. It is one of the charismatic programs in Indonesia. Through this foundation, I help young generation in South East Asia to achieve a better future.

I am not an expert in the Swedish laws and socialist model, but in my opinion separating a child from his mother and bullying a helpless foreigner and her son are unacceptable. I truly believe that the teachers, parents, and students at Jonatan's school have abundant compassion and moral courage. Try to imagine if you are being separated from your children for years due to manipulative plots and government abuse of power. Certainly you will cherish your community's active bystandership to stop the injustice.

Regarding Alex Tjoa's case, she only wants to meet her son. Separating a child from his mother through deceits and government abuse of power is a human rights violation. A child has the right to have contacts with his parent, and the government which is paid by the people must act with the highest integrity.

I am sure that the teachers, parents, and students at Eskelhem school can help to unite Jonatan with his mother. It is better for Jonatan's development if he has a good and close relationship with his mother whom I know is a very talented and intelligent person with extensive knowledge.We might be bound by regulations, by fear of losing our job if we dare to fight against a famous person, but what matters most at the end of the day is that each one of us is a humane human being. We must look with the clarity and purity of our conscience. We must stand up, speak out, and use our humanity frequently to make this world a better place to live 

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FROM GRACE, 10 YEAR OLD, PEMATANGSIANTAR, INDONESIA

Jonatan, ini untuk kamu. Seluruh anak di sekolahku menggambar dan mewarnai untuk kamu. Ini hanya sebagian saja. Kata kepala sekolah Miss Chelsea, kalau sudah siap nanti difoto lagi hari Selasa atau Rabu. Kamu pasti kaget Jonatan.
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FROM ALICE, 8 YEAR OLD, YOGYAKARTA, INDONESIADoing good is so much fun (melakukan kebaikan sangat menyenangkan).
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